How to Quickly
and Easily Find Someone You Lost Track Of
Recently my wife's
sister got curious about what had happened to her first
husband after they split. That marriage had ended badly and
they hadn't been in contact for nearly thirty years. She
tried searching for her ex-husband's name on Google and
Yahoo but didn't get any hits. Knowing I do research online
in my work as a professional writer, she asked if I could
find out anything.
I write for business and technical publications, so I use a
number of high-priced databases for in-depth research. But I
suggested she try a simpler alternative - a solution I use
myself when I want to find someone quickly and easily. I
recommended she try one of the people search database
services. Even the better ones cost so little, they're
practically free. Most offer a trial period. I gave her the
name of one to try.
She was dubious. She's not very comfortable using her
computer for much more than email. Her stab at the search
engines had already left her flustered. Now she was going to
have to "sign up for something and learn something
completely new... oh my goodness," was the way she put it.
Yet, later the same day I suggested it, she emailed back
excitedly. In just minutes, she'd found out all kinds of
information about her ex. It turned out that he'd done
something of a turnaround after they'd broken up. Their
divorce resulted from fights over his serious drinking
problem. After they broke up, though, he'd eventually gone
back to med school, gotten his MD and become an orthopedic
surgeon. He'd even been instrumental in developing some sort
of device used by other surgeons in his field.
Unfortunately, the poor fellow had passed, but at least my
sister-in-law found comfort in knowing that things had
worked out for him after all. She remarked that even though
their relationship ended in the worst imaginable way, it had
started from a good point. She said she hadn't really wanted
to contact him. She just wanted to know what had happened to
him.
Sometimes all we want is just to satisfy our curiosity about
what happened to someone we've lost track of. Most of us
have an old friend or acquaintance we still wonder about.
A Better Way to
Find People
I suspect that's what makes people searching so hot. As many as
half a million times a month, someone searches on Google alone,
looking for a way to find a lost person. Whether it's someone
from the past with whom we've lost touch, or someone we met last
weekend and yearn to see again, were always searching for
others.
Unfortunately, most general searches fail. Just like Googling
failed for my sister-in-law. The information is out there,
somewhere. But being forced to sift through so many unrelated
results makes it nearly impossible.
That's why I recommended she use a people search service -
sometimes they're called Internet Detective services. They pull
all the information spread across thousands of servers and
combine it into people-specific search databases. Then when you
drop in a name or an address or a phone number, whatever bit of
information you have, you get instant gratification. Up pops the
latest scoop about your person.
Thats totally unlike the cold mechanical response a Google or
Yahoo gives:
Results 1 - 10 of about 55,100,000 for joe smith. (0.06 seconds)
You can almost hear the search engine yawn.
By the way - most
searchers don't know this - search engine results don't
actually extend beyond about a thousand entries. Even when
the search engine results page says they found millions and
millions of hits, they don't actually bother to dig it up
and give you access to all of it. They're really just
estimating from their own database tables. Even they know
it's a waste of time.
Yawn, yawn, yawn
On the other hand, it's exciting when you do a person search
on a dedicated database. You find what you're looking for in
seconds. Plus, you not only get current information, often
you get historical data too. You find not only where the
person is now but also where they lived or worked before
that and before that and before that.
You can sort of see your old friend's life laid bare. (Now
what in heaven's name was George doing in Poughkeepsie, New
York, in winter. He always hated the cold)
Sometime you find a person's life didn't turn out the way
you'd have thought. That's when the Criminal Check part of
the service can help you find out what prison they ended up
in!
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When You Choose a Personal Search
Service, Here's What to Look For
If you decide to try out a personal search database, here
are the things I've found important to consider during a
review
1. Free versus Paid
I've been disappointed by the free services. Their main
concern seems to be to try and get you to click on some of
the pay-per-click ads they're displaying - so they can make
a little money.
2. Speed
You want a service that responds quickly. Make sure you try
it out. A fun test is to do a search on yourself. You get to
check speed and accuracy!
3. Proprietary Database
If a service compiles their own database, they must be
fairly successful. It's costly to build and maintain. Such
well-funded providers are much more likely to stay around.
From a usability standpoint, it's better too. You get a
single interface that you can quickly learn.
And I've never seen a free service that has its own
database. Most of the free services I've checked out are
really just link farms - they just point you at some public
or government database.
4. Training and Support
Be sure you can easily learn to use any service you choose.
Actually, you'll find the better services are intuitive -
how to search will make sense as soon as you look at it. But
better services will also provide extra, in-depth searching.
If you ever need the extra, it might require you dig into it
a bit before you can fully use it. Just make sure your
service has easy, accessible ways to learn, like tutorials.
And don't ignore support. Sooner or later you'll have
questions or there will be something you need help to get
resolved. It's best if they offer free, live support.
Final Word
Join the millions using the web to track down old friends
and new friends. But make it easier on yourself by using a
People Search service rather than a general search engine.
Have fun finding out exactly what did become of your old
friend (or even your old, not-so-friendly ex)
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