Check Them Out
Before Getting Too Close
The Internet has become one of the latest places to meet people.
Whether you are looking for a casual friend or a romantic
interlude, it can all be found on the worldwide web.
Places like Facebook and Myspace
give you a forum to express yourself to others, and the number
of matchmaker sites these days is overwhelming.
If you have ever spent any time meeting and greeting on the web,
you know that most people are not exactly what they make
themselves out to be. Some of them have gone so far as to create
an entire alternate identity.
Despite the dangers, the rewards of meeting online can be great.
You have the opportunity to get to know others from all over the
world. You make new and interesting friends from places you may
never have visited. It provides an excellent opportunity for us
to share our cultures and open our minds to new possibilities.
Who is really behind that screen name?
When you make new friends online, how do you know if they are
trustworthy? Can you really afford to get close to them, or are
Internet friendships best kept very casual?
As with any new relationship, go slowly and proceed with
caution. Keep the topics of conversation neutral and safe –
never discuss anything personal with someone you do not know. Be
instantly suspicious if your new friend begins questioning you
about your finances.
If you have been conversing with someone for a while and feel a
connection, you may decide you want to take the friendship a
step further. You may begin to share more personal details of
your life, or you may begin making plans to meet each other in
person.
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Take smart
measures to protect yourself
Before taking this step towards increased intimacy, be sure to
reasonably protect yourself. First of all, try to validate your
new friend’s identity and ensure they really are who they say
they are. Search records from the Department of Motor Vehicles
in your friend’s area and see if you can locate a license or
identification card that matches the name, date of birth,
physical description, and address of your new friend. If you
cannot find a matching motor vehicle record, try voter
registration records.
One of the best
ways to protect yourself is to conduct an online background
check of your friend. Any court documents from judgments,
divorces, or lawsuits should contain some sort of identifying
information you can verify. Criminal history checks will
normally provide you with a date of birth and physical
description, including any major scars or tattoos.
There are also specialized
background check companies, such as
Net Detective, who for a small fee, give you the ability to
search all of the above records and more. You must do a little
sleuth work of your own, though, and find out some important key
identifiers from your new friend so you will know when you have
found him or her.
Meeting on the Internet can be exciting. You must just ensure
you go about it prudently, and protect yourself until you have
solid facts reinforcing your ability to put your trust into your
new friend.
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